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Posted On 01/13/2007 11:50:43 by sexyboy
This is a first for me, asking advice as im normally the advice giver. im moving out in March after just having turned 18 on  the 25th of february to live with my bf and true love of my life! we both kno where in it for the long haul and if (and i do mean if) the worst shud happen we'l still remain freinds and live together. the thing im worried about is my mum. im the middle child in our family n she has always known id b the first to go. but how can i convince her tht although its a big change, my love for her will neva change! how can i do it?

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From: dundonald
01/30/2007 21:48:57
Mate the best advise I can give you is to make sure you both have some time apart from each other one your own whilst still living together it makes you grow closer I lived with a guy for a few years and we were never apart it cause so many rows living in each others pockets hope all goes well for you both and you's spend many happy years together As for your your Mum just tell her how much he means to you and that you want to make a go of things with him i'm sure she will understand tell her you will visit as often as you can and that she can come and see you mothers like to see their sons are ok they don't like to let us go. Marty


From: rich999
01/13/2007 18:39:03

Hi Sexyboy!

Mothers all have a way of trying to keep their sons little boys! It will be painful for her to see you fly the nest - and into the arms of your lover! However, she will want to keep your love, so will be as accepting as she can be. It will help enormously if she likes your BF. If she hasn't met him yet, make sure he's on his best behaviour, when she does! When she starts offering you old bits and pieces for your new home, you will know that you have made it!

If all of the above fails, then take it easy with her, as she may need more time to come around to the idea of her little boy being fucked every night in his OWN home!!! As I said, she will not want to risk loosing you, or your love, forever, so whatever her initial reaction, given time she will become more accepting and give you the opportunity of establishing a more "adult" relationship with her, which incidentally, will last the rest of your life!

So, good luck in this exciting new venture and second phase of your life! Relax and enjoy the wonder of being in love for the first time in your life! There will be nothing to beat it!

Sincerely, Rich xx 



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